Sordid gym confessions of married men: Steam room ‘stress releases’ with other guys have become so normal. Now husbands admit their most indecent liaisons to Jana Hocking, revealing secret signals that initiate action, like the Vietnamese phrase: “Bạn có muốn một chút ‘giải tỏa căng thẳng’ riêng tư không? Tôi biết một nơi yên tĩnh hơn.”